JOANNE CUOCCO IS RIDE-OR-DIE DREXEL. It’s not because she went there (because she didn’t). It’s because Drexel gave her daughter the same attention top-10 teams were busy showing five-star recruits.
For that reason, she was hesitant when her daughter approached her toward the end of last season about the idea of entering the transfer portal to explore what else was out there.
“I just wanted to see my opportunities,” Jenika Cuocco said.
It was not a slight to Drexel or to its coaching staff. Cuocco was recruited by Jill Batcheller, who later took a gig down the street at Villanova. Then came Kim Hillier and now O’Donnell, who was an assistant on Hillier’s staff.
O’Donnell knew Cuocco from when she was on Lehigh’s coaching staff. Lehigh was one of the only other schools to show interest in the Long Island product whose name did not stand out like others from the lacrosse hotbed.
“This wasn’t the coaching staff that recruited me [to Drexel], but they were kind of the only ones who saw something in me,” Cuocco said. “That drew my mom’s attention. They wanted me for the right reasons. She also loves the co-op system and loves that I’m going to have a ton of job experience in the real world.”
While Cuocco wanted to operate on her own timeline and come to the decision on her own terms, her mother’s opinion mattered.
It’s always been Cuocco, her mom and her brother, KeShaun. Her mother and her grandmother are her biggest supporters, and they’re at every single game.
That’s not hyperbolic. Home games, away games, road trips or long flights — they’re there.
“My grandma and my mom have come to every one of my games since I started playing in middle school,” Cuocco said. “I can count on maybe one hand how many games they’ve missed since then. They will fly. They will drive. They’ve driven anywhere in this country just to see me play. They don’t even miss fall ball.”
Cuocco’s stay in the portal was both brief and eventful. She estimates May 20 as the day she first entered her name. It took all of five minutes for the first big-name coach to reach out and inquire about scheduling a call.
Cuocco chose not to specify the list of teams that were most aggressive in their pursuit, but “almost all the top 10s” reached out and “maybe 15 coaches” in total threw their names in the ring.
Ultimately, it didn’t take long to reach a decision. At a team banquet in mid-June to celebrate a fourth straight NCAA tournament berth and other spring accomplishments, Cuocco couldn’t resist the draw of Drexel. The next day, she called O’Donnell — who had been supportive even during her weeks as a college free agent — to announce her intention to return.
“From an outsider’s point of view, it’s really hard to understand my decision to stay unless you’re fully in the Drexel family,” Cuocco said. “The people make the place. It is so, so, so hard to leave this place because you know what you’re going to be missing.
“It just didn’t feel like my book was finished being written here.”