It was with that same free spirit and exuberance that Bocklet left his condominium on New Year’s Day, an electric skateboard tucked under his arm. A short while later, he returned bloodied and barely conscious, with an open wound on top of his head. No one knows exactly what happened. Somehow, he walked home with enough time for his girlfriend, Lindsay Schiff, to call for an ambulance before his condition worsened.
Bocklet, who was not wearing a helmet, survived the accident but suffered brain damage that rendered him mute after the first of multiple seizures at Delray Medical Center and kept him hospitalized there for 11 days. He lost 20 pounds and still could not speak in complete sentences when his doctors transferred him via air ambulance to the Shepherd Center, a spinal cord and brain injury rehabilitation facility in Atlanta.
A video posted Jan. 12 on Instagram shows Bocklet repeating only the word “yes” as family and friends greet him outside the hospital. In the accompanying photo from inside the ambulance, he offers a thumbs-up gesture with his left hand while holding a Kirkland nutrition shake in his right.
There’s another object in the video, however, that has become a symbol of hope and support for the Bocklet family — a handcrafted wooden lacrosse stick from the Akwesasne reservation in New York, a Mohawk Nation territory, resting on Chris’ right shoulder. Stick maker Jack Johnson donated it to Casey Powell’s World Lacrosse Foundation, which supports and advocates for sick and severely injured lacrosse players.
Powell presented the healing stick to Bocklet’s brothers, Mike and Matt, who were in Florida with the rest of the family even though only their mother, Terry, could visit Chris due to COVID-19 restrictions limiting visitors to one per day and the Bocklets’ decision not to overwhelm him with too many different faces to recall and recognize.
Powell also started the GoFundMe campaign that has raised just shy of $250,000 to help pay for medical expenses not covered by insurance and lost wages as Bocklet sets out on his long road to recovery. More than 2,000 people have donated to the cause, most of them connected to lacrosse, a sport in which all four Bocklet siblings starred at the high school, college and professional levels. Their father, Barry, used to coach at John Jay and is one of the top football and lacrosse officials in New York’s Hudson Valley.
Locally and nationally, the Bocklets are beloved.
“They’re the sigil of what a lacrosse family looks like,” said Archers LC goalie Adam Ghitelman, who was teammates with Chris in college at Virginia and professionally with the Atlanta Blaze. “I’m just so proud to be part of a community like ours.”
Ghitelman laid most of the groundwork for the GoFundMe campaign before passing it along to Powell, whose World Lacrosse Foundation was already registered as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. He also used his social media platform, Lacrosse Film Study, and its vast library of classic lacrosse highlights as an incentive for people in the sport to contribute either financially or with word of mouth.
“I’m really close with the Bocklet family. I caught the news through texts. The hair on the back of your neck stands up,” said Ghitelman, who also is a volunteer assistant coach at Utah and co-founder of the Give and Go Foundation. “I’m 2,000 miles away. What can I do to help? That became my mission. For the past three weeks, it has become a full-time job for me to raise awareness for his cause.”