Ann Welhaf Larkin, Kelly’s mother and a Department of Justice attorney, laughed as she recalled the way her middle child of five children was introduced to the game.
Kelly was already winning Presidential Physical Fitness Awards in grade school. She had shown promise in basketball. And she was getting quite good at competitive cheerleading.
“Our neighbor had put her daughter on this rec lacrosse team [in Alexandria], and she suggested taking Kelly along,” said Larkin, who agreed to the arrangement. “I grew up in Florida, didn’t know anything about lacrosse. Next thing I know, Kelly is on the team.
“I didn’t even go to any games at first, being a full-time lawyer with five kids at the time,” she added. “But I kept hearing that I needed to come watch Kelly play, because she was really good. I started to feel like a guilty mom. It turns out Kelly just had this natural gift for it.”
One of those encouraging voices was Rick Sofield, a fellow DOJ employee and also an A team coach with Fort Hunt Youth Lacrosse. He watched this new player fall in love with the sport and master basic stick work quickly. Years later, Sofield would guide Bishop Ireton, with Larkin’s help in part, to four state titles in five seasons (2014-18).
“Kelly absolutely became a standout quickly at Fort Hunt, and we had a bunch of great players,” said Sofield, adding that 15 future Division I players played on his seventh- and eighth-grade squads. A number of those, including current college seniors Kaitlyn Luzik (UVA), Charlotte Sofield (UNC) and Kelly Mathews (Boston U), played at Bishop Ireton.
“Kelly plays with freedom and confidence. Her smarts, the way she recognizes patterns in the defense, set her apart,” Sofield added. “She sees seams that are going to be open. She sees slides before they come. She feels the game.”
“Her natural ability was amazing,” said Jill Larkin, Kelly’s older sister by 18 months. “Kelly excelled right away. She could make split-second decisions and make the perfect feed. She’s never been selfish.
“I was jealous of how gifted she was, because I started playing two years before she did. But I remember being amazed the first time I watched her as a freshman [at Bishop Ireton].”
The sense of sisterhood remains strong between the two, as they have been reunited at the academy.
Jill was so interested in medicine and helping others as a teenager that she earned emergency medical technician and pharmacy technician licenses at West Potomac High School. She chose to enlist in the U.S. Navy, determined to become a corpsman. While stationed in Norfolk, Va., she decided — with Kelly’s urging — to apply for a Naval Academy appointment.
Jill Larkin spent a year at the Naval Academy prep school, then headed for Annapolis to go through plebe summer in 2017. She is now a 22-year-old sophomore at Navy, in her second season as manager for the women’s lacrosse team.
“I didn’t want to have to salute my sister for the rest of my life,” Jill Larkin quipped.
“It’s really great having my sister here. We’re here to support each other every day, and we’re actually going through this experience together,” Kelly Larkin said.
Kelly Larkin could have played at a number of Division I schools. Florida and Virginia were real possibilities. But having been exposed to the idea of Navy lacrosse and the academy — in part by knowing some families with academy graduates in her neighborhood, in part by going to Navy-Marine Corps Memorial to watch football and lacrosse games — Larkin feels she was destined to stay close to home at that special institution.
“Being part of something bigger is important. And it was hard not to fall in love with the campus the first time I visited this place,” said Larkin, who verbally committed to Navy the summer following her freshman year of high school.
“It was Kelly’s desire to serve, and wanting to serve goes far beyond playing lacrosse at the highest level,” Timchal said. “There is the educational piece, the free education, the life after this game. And she does want to compete like crazy.”